When it's a mind-blowing, bed-rattling orgasm you're lady is after, keeping it simple is absolutely key. If the goal of the moment is to break pleasure records, you have to stick to the basics. "Trying to accomplish complicated acrobatics distracts her from the sex itself, putting her focus on she can matchup rather than on just experiencing the sensations. When you want to guarantee her orgasms, the simplest positions are often also the best positions, and with a few modifications, you can make them even more orgasm inducing than they already are. Here, we custom-designed some of the carnal classics to make sure you always hit her high notes.
The Slow Climb
You'll never see missionary position the same way again. While she is on her back, put a pillow under her butt, make her lift her hips, and bring her legs up and back toward her shoulders, as though you're folding in half. This move allows you to better ease of thrusting and deeper penetration — a perk for both of you. Plus, it can stimulate her G-spot. But consider this a warm-up — you're getting the zone primed for a more intense orgasm.
Doggy Down
You've probably tried an all-fours pose before (at least, we hope you have!). But while mentally the doggie-style position has great bad-girl benefits, in order to make it actually orgasmic, you need to modify it a bit. Make her lie on her stomach, lifting her butt slightly so you can enter her. You should prop yourself up on her with your hands in a push-up position or just lie on top of her. Not only does this facedown configuration provide increased friction as you move in and out, but she can gently grind her clitoral area against the bed as well.
The Scissors
With all the twisting and bending that goes on, sometimes sex can feel more like a cardio workout than a pleasure fest. That's why it's important to make her have at least one relaxed orgasm - inducing position in your repertoire. While she’s on her back, you should lie on your side, turned toward her. Make her swing both her legs over your hips and thighs, making a bridge over them. Then, just let gently thrust into her. If it takes her a while to climax, this pose is ideal. It's not very aerobic, so the sex can go on for a long time without either of you tiring out. When you want to climax, she can touch herself or you can use your top hand to stimulate her.
Reverse Cowgirl
Girl-on-top tends to be a go-to for achieving orgasm...and for good reason! It allows her to dictate the pace and depth of thrusting while you relax, but mainly because she does all the work. She can touch her clitoris, or you could do it for her. But she can up the ante by literally pulling a 180 - by twisting around so she’s pointed toward your feet in reverse cowgirl position. Instead of straddling, she puts her legs together, feet flat between your legs. The benefits of this are twofold: With her legs together, the fit is even tighter, making the sensations more intense. Plus, there's increased G-spot stimulation, which combined with her own clitoral strokes, makes for an explosive orgasm
Tabletop Tonk
In some cases, a simple change of scenery can aid in achieving orgasm. For this move, you'll need a kitchen table — one that comes to your waist. Make her lie down on the table with her hips near the edge. You enter her while standing between her legs, holding on to her hips for leverage. She can rest your feet on your shoulders or on the edge of the table. Because you’re standing, your hands are free to stroke your body. And since you’re at a perpendicular angle, rather than right on top of her, it will be easier for you to touch her clitoris, unobstructed. To up her odds of orgasming, make her clench and lift her butt, which will increase the pelvic tension and blood flow to the area.
Lap Dance
This one's always a guy favorite — you sit and she straddles you so you're face-to-face. She has a lot of control over the speed, angle, and motion because she can use her arms and legs to help her maneuver. Rather than just moving up and down, which can be especially tiring for her, make her sway forward and back, rubbing her clitoral area against you. In addition to the freedom of movement, there are a few other benefits to this booty move. If she leans back just a little bit, she'll get greater G-spot stimulation and you'll be able to stimulate her clitoris, simultaneously - a double whammy! Plus, her breasts will be perfectly aligned with your mouth, adding a whole other layer to the sexual experience.
The Spoon
Obviously, you know emotional attachment is essential to making your girl achieve an ultimate orgasm. And there's no configuration that's more snuggly than the spoon. To assume the position, simply make her lie on her side, while you scoot up behind her. Rather than move in and out, you should stay inside her, gently thrusting against the front wall of her vagina. Aside from fulfilling her cuddly needs, it provides consistent stimulation to her G-spot, which is key for achieving orgasm from intercourse.
Tips for her
When it comes to achieving supreme pleasure, being in the right mind-set is half the battle. Since your guy so unselfishly is working towards your pleasure, you should:
Strengthen your senses. Certain smells and sounds can have a Pavlovian affect on your libido. Think about what puts you in the mood, and then designate an enhancer that will signal to your brain and body that it's time to get naughty. For example, before sex, put on a sultry jazz CD.
Be selfish. Worrying too much about your guy's pleasure means you wind up ignoring your own. So silence the inner monologue of "How am I doing?" and simply enjoy the experience. Otherwise, it becomes more work than play.
Stay on course. A stressful day's memories can still manage to sneak up on you, even when you're mid-mattress session. To stay in the moment, try to focus your thoughts purely on the physical and pay attention to how every touch, lick, and stroke feels.
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