If you’re still trying out the old and tested formula of taking your date out for a romantic dinner or for a movie, can it or soon she will can you for ever and find someone more interesting.
Here are 5 ways to deviate from the usual clichéd dates.
1. Make it personal:
It’s time to try and remember every conversation that you had. Recollect what she likes, what she hasn’t done in a while or has always wanted to try. Base a date revolved around these things and she’ll thoroughly enjoy it as well as you for coming up with it. If she likes flowers, take her to a flower show. A few hours anywhere she likes is not going to kill you.
2. Make it outside:
Why be confined to four walls when you can enjoy a sensual experience together by getting out there in the sun and wind and even rain. A lovely picnic or a nice summer’s drive with the windows down can be exhilarating. Just be sure of giving her a hint before hand which elements to encounter. She wouldn’t dare step down in her favorite stilettos if a picnic spot you’ve chosen takes a 20 minute trek to get there!
3. Make it cultural:
Go attend plays, a book reading, or pay a visit to the museum. They’re interesting, they’re classy and you’ll have a lot to talk about once you head back home and start talking to each other on the phone. Going for a movie like Jodha Akbar is not cultural!!
4. Make it active:
Chatting over coffee, over a romantic meal or on the park bench is great but not on the first few dates where you keep tripping over the ‘umms’ and ‘ahhs’ every once in 5 seconds. The best way to know each other is by doing something that’s actively fun like playing a sport together. That way you’ll have lots to share without the awkward pauses.
5. Make it your own:
Most guys go on dates with suggestions on what to do and not to by their guy pals rather than coming up with their own idea which makes them feel comfortable. Plan a date that reflects who you are and what you generally enjoy doing. It’s for you to enjoy and not pretend to be enjoying it with 10 dating pointers running at the back of your mind.
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